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Life might not be the competition that you think it is
Life might not be the competition that you think it is, which is good news. Lots of people, from a young age, "learn" that life is about the accumulation of money, wealth, property, etc. It's an easy misconception when you are young - maybe watching your parents (or...
Learn to be ‘content’ (with yourself)
Forget about learning how to deal with problems; learn how to be "content" with yourself. As we learn and grow from young children through adulthood, learning how to "solve problems" is a big piece of how we grow and interact with others. Being able to solve problems...
Get out of your echo chamber
Sometimes comfort isn't what you need. As difficult as it can be, sometimes the cold, hard, truth is what you need to hear. We all have friends who think we are amazing (at least I hope we all have at least one friend like that). And that friend is the one who is by...
What to expect when divorcing
Divorce is a "state level" action, meaning each state treats divorce differently. But the overall process is largely the same. Much like a drivers license is given by one state, it is honored in the others - same with divorce. Here's what to expect when divorcing:...
Financial Wins And Woes
Not everyone is filthy rich, but you don’t need to be either. “Financial wellness” is based on your own personal (or family) needs. Financial Stability is like a seesaw and the initial goal is to keep the seesaw largely in the middle so both sides are equal. Both...
Help with managing your emotions
Divorce can be an tremendously emotional experience. Good, bad, angry, whatever emotion you can think of, it probably comes up during divorce. One approach that can help you manage those emotions is to think of the divorce like a business transaction; something like...
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